Stress plays a HUGE role in our lives. It's everywhere. Some stress is good for you, while the rest of it tears you to pieces.
I wear about a million hats. I'm a full time college student, girlfriend, dog mom, youth group leader, health and wellness coach, business owner, big sister, daughter, 2nd in command mommy in my house, and so much more. Those who know me, know that I invest a great deal of time in school and my family and relationships. Very little time is devoted to myself, It took a complete meltdown a couple of weeks ago for me to see just how stressed out I was. I was in the middle of summer school finals and experiencing a severe burnout.
Yes, me. The health and wellness coach. The one who is supposed to be teaching you how to keep yourself balanced and well. We all fall short. I wanted to use this post to talk about what I have learned from my own experience and through some research.
Time Management
I do everything for everyone. I like to be on the go and moving. Often, my ripping and running up and down the highway taking care of errands for myself and others kept me
busy versus being productive. Many times, people tell me to "work smarter, not harder". It makes perfect sense, and even though I felt that I had a pretty good grip on my life, I was sadly mistaken
- Make a schedule and stick to it! - Write down important tasks, meetings, etc and the time they are occurring. Don't forget to plan in some "me" time.
- Write stuff down - don't feel like you can remember it all. I have a pretty good memory and STILL forget minor stuff that eventually adds up. I sync my tablet, iPhone, and computer AND keep a written calendar. Between these four, there's no more forgetting anything.
- Prioritize - Begin your day by writing down what you need to do each day and rank them in order of importance on a numeric scale with 1 being the most important. That part is easy. The hard part was actually sticking to this task list. I often found myself putting off bigger, less exciting tasks for last and being up a creek when crunch time. Self-discipline is also important here. Take bigger tasks and break them down into small pieces. It WILL change your life!
- Look at how you're spending your time - No, seriously. Look at how you're spending your time. You'd be surprised at how much time you spend on small, petty stuff. For me, it was ripping and running the road running errands for people. I'd spend huge chunks of my day in the car and not even 25% of that time actually completing the important tasks. It also helped to write stuff down and prioritize.
Look At How You're Living
Diet, exercise, and sleep play a huge role in how your body can handle stress. Creating a healthier lifestyle
improves your focus and concentration and even your body's ability to recover from a rough day.
Check Your Work and Living Spaces
Clutter has a huge impact on how you function. It is a subtle stressor that contributes to mental chaos. Take some time to clean and reoganize your living and work spaces and see how you feel afterwards.
Eat cleaner
Changing your eating habits alone will do wonders for you. You'll see your energy level improve as well as your ability to concentrate. On the go eating and a lack of adequate sleep really takes a lot out of you. A lot of people use coffee and energy drinks as a go-to to help keep them alert. Energy drinks are horrible for you. No, really...they suck. Some drinks say they can improve mental focus and energy, but that's always short lived. Drink plenty of water, when you're dehydrate, your brain can't quite function as well as it should and it tricks you into thinking it's sleepy when really all you need is water. Try to drink half your weight in ounces of water. My favorite app for monitoring water intake is "Water Your Body" and it is available for iOS and in the Google Play store.
Get some sleep
As a college student, I felt like it was just normal to not sleep. I mean, all-nighters are just a common aspect of the average college student's life. My problem was that I was pulling all-nighters several days a week and then getting up early in the morning. That all ties back in to the time management section above. Most adults need 7-8 hours of sleep to recharge their bodies.
Adequate sleep keeps your immune system strong, helps with weight management, boosts your mood and mental focus, and wards off a number of health ailments. You kinda need that sleep. Make sure you're budgeting enough time into your schedule to get those necessary hours; give yourself a bedtime. Naps are awesome, I generally have to have one (I'm a big baby). If you can manage it in your time budget, give yourself 30 minutes to an hour (no more) to recharge. Trust me, it's a lot easier than it sounds. Just write everything down!
Get Active
You'd be surprised at the role exercise plays in mental focus and even improving your energy levels. Get a workout in early in the day, even if it is just for 30 minutes. Exercise will refresh your body and give you a nice boost to get you through the day. Do this as at least 2-3 times a week and watch how your energy levels and mental focus soar and your stress levels decline.
A Little Extra
I also use my own It Works! supplements to help me with mental focus. Our products are a God-send. They are all natural products that work with your body to restore balance. I swear by the
Greens and
Confianza to help me with natural energy and mental focus.
The Greens are packed with enough nutrients to give you your recommended daily 8 servings of fruits and veggies. Just mix in juice or water and go. It also helps give you a natural energy boost and detox your body, which also helps with energy.
Confianza is an anti-stress formula that also works to improve your mental focus. I pop two of these in the morning with my Greens and I'm good to go! I SWEAR by this power duo!
Boom!

I'm amazed at how much more extra PRODUCTIVE time I have on my hands now that I'm beginning to learn how to stick to what's written in my calendar and take into account how other areas of my life are affecting me. I've been 2 weeks without a freak out and I'm more focused. I'm happier, more energetic, and I'm not looking back "BOOM!" *Tamar Voice*
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